With progressing into this new chapter of my life, one ridden with emotional difficulties, struggling families, college field of study changes, and launching a new business, I've found myself in this deep-set stage of crippling anxiety. And it's not until this point that I've realized just how real this emotional pain can be. When you lay in bed, and you can't stop shaking, and your head feels as if it's spinning, and you can feel your heart rate surpassing your breath, It's so easy to feel as if your whole world is collapsing.
I'm going to be completely honest and say that although photography is the true base of my passion, starting up this business is exhausting me. But it's also teaching me more than I thought possible. Although I may struggle, which I've learned from Jasmine Star is 10000% okay, the struggle is a part of the learning process. No one is instantly perfect at something and no all-star made it to the top without a few failures or panic attacks. Every pro misses a shot, every musician misses a note, and every top chef still burns themselves every once in a while. It's okay to admit your struggles, in fact that honesty and humility is what unites us as humans and as creatives.
If we can all learn to break down that "pride wall" we put on social media or we try so hard to keep together, we will grow to stop comparing one another. As the Pinterest quote says "don't compare your bloopers to someone else's highlight reel." And that's so easy for us as creatives to do! It is effortless for us to come across another artists instagram page or website or clientele and think "what am I doing wrong?" "why can't I get this right?" "wow, why isn't that me?" but that was never meant to be you. You were given your unique talent and outlook for such important reasons. I can't encourage you enough that without you, your world would truly not be the same. Don't fight the struggle and don't convince yourself no one else struggles because
confession: we ALL struggle. and we struggle hard.
personal confession: I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing in this field, I feel so uneducated and that I'm working with inadequate equipment, I feel like I have no idea what my photographic style is and I feel like I'm far from where I want to be.
but here's another confession:
you're supposed to struggle.
i'm not supposed to be a professional yet: photography is a day by day experience you continue to learn and grow in.
It's okay to be anxious and it's okay to doubt your work, but remember to remind yourself how far you've come from day 1.
It's okay to compare your work to others, but instead of feeling inferior, feel inspired to make photos like that or with those poses or those color schemes.
It's okay if you're not booking clients, but don't stop growing: use this down time for education, inspiration, shadowing, and discovering.
It's okay to be where you are. Admit that. Own up to your struggles and ROCK them. Share them. Laugh at them and dance in them. No one has it completely figured out, but hey, we are working on it. Let's work on it together and build a community where we aren't ashamed, but we are amazed at the support we find pouring into our souls.